Reader's comments:
Khunying as a webmaster
Ky was not a tough person like Wiwanda. For those who knew her,
they had to agree that she was not the type to crash with
anybody; she'd rather avoid a confrontation. It is true that what khun Po
said was very reasonable and that ky should have reprimanded pipat. But
she was not be the type to exert her authority.
In hindsight, she
can now see what she should have done. Then again, she may not like to be
reminded of her mistakes, especially when her character could not be
changed. Otherwise, she would have chased pipat out of her sight and site
right now.
She won't do anything aggressive. I can give you
an analogy. If she is a teacher, she would not cane a student, but would
rather send him/her to stand outside her class for the whole hour while
she continues teaching.
While you said more than once that you're the type for 'an eye
for an eye', she has a different approach to an issue altogether. She was
successful when everybody played a game in a civilized manner. She simply and surely
cannot handle a foul-mouthed gangster.
Babatov and Khunying
I have already said about ky as the webmaster. Now I would like to say 2 more points about you Babatov and ky.
1. I can see that you have such a deep love and admiration for ky. You also value your friendship very highly. And I can see that ky was also fond of you. But what you have felt for her is much greater than the other way around. She dropped you as if you were a piece of dirt. Of course, you told her in the end to leave you alone, and that you no longer wanted to continue the interaction. But that does not mean that you fell out of love, or the friendship completely severed or dissolved. You just had enough at one stage.
2. But for ky to distrust you and even suspect you of conspiring,
is unforgivable. In other words, she did not care, understand, nor
value your love and dedication. We somehow have to take into considearion that
the "internet experience" might have taught her to be suspicious and
cautious, as we have seen the abuse she received over 5 years ago.
She might have
learned not to trust. Of course, on your part, it's hurtful because you
still feel the same to her.
On top of that, for a
person who values honesty, to be suspected and distrusted is too
painful.
I could hardly imagine somebody loving pipat. He is obnoxious, ugly and vicious.
Truly a sick man, as we believe in appearance telling character.
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